THings I love and Hate

things i love:
faith, love, friendship, talking on the phone, watching cooking shows, eating fish and chips on the beach, pampering myself, patterned hijabs, bed comforters, restraunt food cooked at home, when its sunny but not scorching hot, my wedding dress, loose oversized shirts, naturally curly hair that doesnt frizz, book shops, vintage style tea cups (although I dont own any), sales, mexican food, stylish women that push prams, being old but young, tacky stuff in small doses (like leopard print), decorating the living room, lemongrass cented essential oil which i put in a  incense burner, cake box mixes, (makes life so much easier!), learning different cultures, different cuisines, travelling the world (something I WISH for so badly),

Things i hate:
narrow mindedness, not giving people a chance, racism, clothes that are too tight, feeling bloated, sweet chilli sauce, cockroaches, the sound of mosquitos, changing quilt covers (although i should learn by now!), colour coordinated everything, contrived behaviour, littering, over processed food and people that put down religions.

Now that I am married, do i still feel the same about Polygany?

A dear reader of mine has asked me if i still felt that same about polygany now that I am married. For those of you who dont know how i felt about polygany before, well i will try to put it simply. I was always supportive of those who live polyganous lifestyles and was pretty much in agreement to everything with regards to polygany. So are my views STILL the same?


yeah, pretty much.. Nothing has changed except..

I do feel jealous or angry at the thought of it happening to me - BUT. that is ME. that is my own feeling that i will need to overcome if one day I was in the position.. well I would like to try.

I was also asked if I felt that there  had to be a reason for a man to take a second, wife.. Well look, I think there should be a reason.. we are human, we shouldnt do things without reasoning otherwise we could do alot of damage to ourselves and those around us. So yes in that sense I belive that if you are going to take a second wife, its better have some kind of reasoning - to maintain a stable and healthy relationship with  the wives, and well its just more dignified.. but if a man wishes to do so, without any apparrent reasons, then you know, thats kinda unfortunate but you know what, dont let that cloud your judgement of polygany..  we have to acknowledge that it is halal..Allah swt has made a perfect system for human beings, this i trust.

Its a really big and complex issue..cant cover it all in one post. -  but me personally, I don't mind polygany.
BUT before anyone takes my post in the wrong way, Id just like to say that, Islam promotes Monogamy more than anything. It encourages people to have ONE partner in marriage for the rest of your life if you can and to never EVER cheat on your partner no matter what. you cant get any more monogoumous than that.

We should all try to accept each other's way of life and support marriage whether its a monogoumous or polyganous.. They all serve the same purpose of pleasing God.

 whatever happens, try to take it easy, because everything is Qadr (written by Allah swt).

Im bacccccckkkkkk

salamu alaikum girls, i know ive been gone for a long time.. well thats because I got married. yeah you've all seen it happen before. Someone you kind of know then all of the sudden they disappear, then there back and telling you that the got married. So I got married ..and I will stop there before i get carried away because I dont want to base this blog about me.. I just thought I would put it out there why my blog was closed for so long. So yes, that being said, i will keep this blog mainly about Islam, Hijab Fashion, women topics, you know.. stuff.   If anyone has any questions about Islam please feel free to ask me. I'm not a scholar but I will help you in any way I can. Oh and I almost forgot.. I want to improve my writing skills so this blog will be my scrap peice of paper. (oh that sounded abit off putting right?)

So keep an eye for posts about islam, Hijab, food and more, I know theres many blogs out there about these things but really, this is what Im passionate about..

Thanks guys,
Love Sarah.